just fyi
things that are okay: lesbians not being attracted to trans women, preferring to date cis women.
things that are also okay: lesbians being okay with dating trans women
things that aren’t okay: “LESBIANS ARE ATTRACTED TO FEEEMALES. FEMALE = VAGINA. TRANS LESBIANS ARE STRAIGHT MEN!! IF YOU DATE A TRANS WOMAN, YOU ARE A BISEXUAL, NOT A PURE LESBIAN LIKE ME.”
things that definitely aren’t okay: claiming that if a lesbian isn’t interested in dating a trans woman, she is transphobic or “cissexist,” and she should try it even if she doesn’t want to avoid being seen as a bigot. guilting her, pressuring her, or coercing her in any way.
“Lesbians thinking that transwomen are disgusting subfemales is valid if they’re nice about it uwu”
not being attracted to someone =/= thinking someone is a disgusting or less than cis women
literally how the fuck could you get that from this
Okay, what reason do Lesbians (aside from people such as those who are traumatized by penises) have for not wanting to date transwomen?
Further question, do you think it’s okay for white people to not want to date black people?
Their reason is preferring to date cis women and they don’t owe anyone an explanation or justification beyond that for not being interested.
And yes, that is also okay, for anyone to be more attracted to any race, so long as they’re not shooting down other races as inferior or uplifting their own as “the objective best.” Attraction isn’t activism and it cannot be controlled or forced, and it’s no one’s place to try to change it. People should enter into relationships with people they want to be in relationships with, period.
I like dark hair. It doesn’t mean I think everyone with light hair is ugly or unlovable, it just means I personally am more attracted to people with dark hair, and people with light hair deserve to find someone who is attracted to people with light hair.
HOOOHOOHOOOOO BOY, THAT’S WHAT I GET FOR MAKING THE MISTAKE OF DEBATING AN ANTI-SJW
I’m not an anti-SJW…and I’m also not racist or transphobic. People just don’t have to want to sleep with you, Karen.
I’m Native American. If someone didn’t want to date Natives, that’s their loss and I would not try to coerce them, I would find someone who did.
Not my business who someone wants to fuck and it’s not yours, either, because attraction isn’t activism.
OP: “If you’re not attracted to trans people, you’re not obligated to date them… but you don’t have to be transphobic about it.”
Some nimrod: “What’s this anti-SJW bullshit!?”
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